August Ramblings, Reviews and Recommendations

Oh dear, it’s the tail end of the summer holidays and I am now staring down the barrel of the gun that is the start of term. In many ways I am really looking forward to it – the main one being I don’t think I can stay in the same house as my beloved family any longer.

Of course I love them, ADORE them in fact! Would jump in front of a BUS for them if the occasion demanded. But… Jeez. They sure can be hard work sometimes.

Without school to distract them (or feed them) I am washing clothes every day, replacing the contents of the fridge every other day, and spending a fortune on pocket money so they can go into town to while away a few hours buying things like bubble tea.

I have also discovered that the swines have learned how to cook my precious Amazon noodles (read all about my addiction here) so I have run out! Damn their eyes. For years I have got away with hiding them on a top shelf, relying on height and the fact they didn’t know how to cook or use the hob. My secret stock stayed secret. But now Son is taller than me (able to reach the shelf) and permanently hungry (an urge that will drive him to extreme measures, including working out how to cook), he has ravaged through them all.

The good news is I am finding great joy in Tik Tok. Yes I know it’s for the young ‘uns, but this woman has changed my life. In my old age, I take great satisfaction in things being tidy, neat and uncluttered and the towel cupboard has been a huge bug bear of mine. (Bear with me)

Daughter will only wear a towel once and then put it in the laundry basket. Son uses four towels every time he showers. My towel cupboard looks like some poor animal who has had its innards dragged out of its stomach, left to trail across the floor.

Well… no longer! This new Tik Tok hack has transformed my towel cupboard into serried ranks of the most gorgeous little sausages, and the children seem reluctant to disturb their perfection. Result! I can also get loads more towels in there! Yay! Have a look…. (Her account is filled with brilliant cleaning tips – yes I know I’m sad. I used to be in a rock band, don’t you know. What happened to me!?)

From @vaneamaro91 Her cleaning account is a must see!
My towel cupboard filling up with neat little sausages!

While looking through endless Tik Tok videos I came across this really lovely trend where people recreate photos from when they were younger. I loved it, and managed to persuade Son he loved the idea too. (Daughter is going through her ‘you take my picture I lose my soul’ phase).

We just visited my parents, which was lovely as we hadn’t seen them since January, and Son persuaded my dear old 80 year old Dad and my lovely Mum to do this videos. What do you think?

Son and Dad
Son and Mum

Visiting Mum and Dad also meant we could go SHOPPING! There is a great outlet shop near them and we all went a bit mad. We hadn’t been to ANY shops except for grocery stores and pharmacies for FIVE MONTHS! It doesn’t seem possible it’s been so long.

So there we were, four country bumpkins out on the town, cards clutched in hands, masks covering our faces. We skittered away whenever anyone came near and were very nervous but it was a GREAT SUCCESS.

Son got a variety of sporting outfits, Daughter looked utterly ravishing in everything she tried on – which was irritating to the extreme – and Rob got some trainers.

We trailed around a million shops before the family declared themselves satisfied. I then refused to leave until I got something for me. And this is what I found. Isn’t it gorgeous? Michael Kors and HALF PRICE.

I was going to show a photo of me wearing it, but was so horrified by my gnarly old skin I thought it would be better to photograph it in the box

We then went to see Rob’s Mum who has had to cope with Lockdown all on her own since her husband – my lovely father-in-law – died. She was in good spirits and it was great to see her, I particularly enjoyed her enormous roast dinners. Back to low-carb on Monday… (The holidays have passed very quickly, I meant to get back on the diet six weeks ago. I now have two weeks left to knock off that Lockdown stone.)

On the way to see my Mum and Dad we managed to get caught in the traffic caused by the M25 flooding. Rather than the two and a half hours it usually takes we spent SEVEN HOURS on the motorway. We could have flown to Spain and back in that time. After the 35 degree heat the only good thing was we had air conditioning.

It was therefore with some trepidation we set off from there to Rob’s Mum. We were right to be nervous. Within ten minutes on the road someone stopped abruptly for no reason and we narrowly avoided crashing into them. Then, as we were speeding along at about 70 mph, an enormous pigeon appeared out of nowhere and slammed, face first, into the car, making me scream at the top of my lungs. This made the children shriek in shock and Rob bellowed at us all to shut up.

Here is its imprint.

You can just make out the poor pigeon’s spread wings as it tried to avoid us

Heart hammering with terror I kept yelling at Rob. ‘That’s two bad things! We need to smash a jam jar or something!’

‘What?’ he replied in irritation, straining to see if the pigeon was still plastered over the side of the car.

‘We need to break something otherwise a third bad thing will happen.’ I gibbered, searching in the glove compartment. Eventually I found a pencil and snapped it in half, thus keeping us all safe for the rest of our journey.

Meanwhile, writing has taken a bit of a step back as I finished the audio version of my book. I also ran a competition to win a paperback version of my book and it was so nice to see how pleased the winners were when they got their copies. Recording and editing the audio version was hell on earth and took over fifty hours but at least it is now done. I now need to get on with my short story collection.

A friend of mine is an Artist and I sent her a story I wrote called ‘Pyotr and Vika’ about a homeless violin player in Moscow. I asked if she wouldn’t mind doing an illustration for it and she sent me this first draft. I absolutely love it – what do you think?

I was also over the moon to receive my very first video review by a YouTuber called MadWitch. I Have a look – I was so chuffed with this I made my parents sit in front of their smart TV to watch it. They were really proud, bless them, but I suspect they don’t understand YouTube and thought it was an extract from Newsnight on the BBC or something. But still, Telly is Telly isn’t it?

MadWitch’s review of my book ‘The Woman and the Witch’ – still available on Amazon!

Reviews and Recommendations

I’ve been reading loads over the holiday, which has been bliss. You can follow my reviews on Good Reads – it should be a link somewhere next to this post.

If you read one thing this summer read this. You know how much I love Lisa Jewell, and this latest one of hers didn’t disappoint.

Ohhhh I loved this book so much it HURT! As I said in my Good Reads review, this book should be used in writing classes. Do go and have a read, it’s so compelling and unputdownable. You won’t regret it – Lisa Jewell is a master craftswoman. If you haven’t read any of her work you have a whole shelf of incredible books waiting for you.

I have also stumbled across two TV programmes which we are all enjoying as a family. This is so rare I can’t tell you. For the first time since the children were little, we all sit together to watch these two shows. They are both warm and funny – do check them out and let me know what you think.

‘Ghosts’ is brilliant. A new series is coming out this year. I only discovered it this month and had no idea it existed. It’s always good when you discover a new programme and you can watch the whole season in one go.

Alison Cooper is excellent, in particular, but the whole cast is wonderful, many of them drawn from the stars of the hilarious ‘Horrible Histories’.

This is on Apple TV and if you can get hold of it do have a watch. It’s sweet and has plenty of laugh out loud moments. Son, Daughter, Rob and I all loved it and binged the first four episodes in one evening.

I looked it up because it is created by Bill Lawrence who created ‘Scrubs’ an excellent, excellent show from the early 2000s. You can re-watch it on All 4 and I recommend you do.

Talking of ‘Scrubs’, over Lockdown the two stars of the show, Zach Braff and Donald Faison, started doing a podcast, talking about each episode of the show. It’s very funny and I love the chemistry between them. It’s called ‘Fake Doctors Real Friends’ and well worth a listen.

On this week’s episode, it’s the season 2 finale, Bill’s directorial debut on the Scrubs series, and the crew has become disillusioned with their dream career. In the real world, Zach and Donald continue. their plan to get Joelle a partner, Zach reveals the time he flew to Las Vegas for a bottle of water. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://news.iheart.com/podcast-advertisers
  1. 222: My Dream Job
  2. 221: My Drama Queen
  3. 220: My Interpretation
  4. 219: My Kingdom
  5. 218: My T.C.W. with Bill Lawrence

Finally I can’t recommend a Podcast without giving another plug for the UTTERLY MAGNIFICENT ‘Older and Wider’ Podcast with Jenny Eclair and Judith Holder. Please, Please sign up to this. You won’t regret it.

Ep 83. The one with the car bonnet, all the apples and some beat boxing Older and Wider Podcast

On the podcast this week Jenny & Judith put out a pledge for some more versions of the theme tune…perhaps some beat boxing? Judith reveals what she has been doing with all her apples and Jenny describes a perfect Sunday – deckchairs and show off yoga included. The podcast will return on Friday 9th October – please email the podcast : olderwiderpod@gmail.com Follow the podcast on Instagram @olderandwiderpodcast If you would like to get in touch with the podcast about sponsorship or have any other queries please email dknight@avalonuk.com
  1. Ep 83. The one with the car bonnet, all the apples and some beat boxing
  2. Ep 82. The one with Jenny’s new fitness app, some horse riding and an update on Jenny’s Mum.
  3. Ep 81. The one with a difficult few days, a drizzly trip to Wales and some tap dancing.
  4. Ep 80. The one with the bra extender, a potential new career for the girls and a busy bank holiday
  5. Ep 79. The one with the recorder, a happy reunion and some bread for afters

Sorry I rambled on for so long! I hope you are all keeping well and safe.

Finally, another plug for my book! Do please have a look and let me know if you like it.

4 thoughts on “August Ramblings, Reviews and Recommendations

  1. Juliet

    Oh my good lord – that towel thing, I could watch that continuously it is that good. But then I love anything where someone makes things all sorted and fixed, mainly because I am pretty useless domestically so it is a bit like watching a magic show of the best kind. Not sure I’d ever let anyone use a towel so neatly rolled – I’d possibly demand they stand in the bathroom and shake themselves dry. The pictures of your son and your parents are adorable, your daughter will come through the other side and be a sweet creature again, although our daughter had to leave home and hit her early-mid twenties before she became a pleasure, an expensive pleasure but a pleasure and mainly a pleasure to other people.

    As for gnarly skin – yup same here but the daughter sent a very belated birthday present of Caroline Hirons book on skin, it is a fabulous book, total game changer and I highly recommend it. I think following her advice is working or maybe I am just deluding myself but it is a REALLY good book (and she has a website, she is hysterically no nonsense). Finally I am glad you got out and about and bought such a pretty treat – we are a little bumpkinnish here – I had a whole morning in Glasgow the other week when we got a slot to go to the office and clear out our stuff, gosh I was wide eyed with wonder (and fancy coffee) after my trip to the big smoke. Ill be even more wide eyed with excitement as I’m about to have 2 weeks off and we are heading to Englandshire for 2 weeks based in Gravel-Guys flat near Uxbridge, I am nonsensically excited about trips to Kew and whatnot – who knew such a thing could be that exciting. Not sure I can cope

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    1. middleagedwarrior

      Thank you! And thanks for the reassurance about daughters! Ooh that Hirons book sounds excellent and I’ve had a google and I will check out her blog as well. Do you get to ever go back to your office or is it still working from home? Have a fab time in Uxbridge! I will keep an eye on your blog for pics. Enjoy the big smoke!

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      1. Juliet

        we will be working from home for ages – re entry date is possibly late spring next year as they are “reconfiguring” space that housed 200 to 30 – dont even ask. I think reconfiguration should involve us all loading ourselves onto a giant sushi belt that takes 7.5 hours… it is at least as stupid as any of the actual plans that involve putting meeting rooms on the top floor (we have 2 very shonky non replace-able lifts and a lot of potentially quite diasbled external visitors), the top floor has a kitchen the size of a broom cupboard (which it originally was) and the smallest toilets you have ever seen….. The Caroline is amazing – very, very good

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